One sided loves

 

  

One sided loves are like sharp nails.

But it is probably better to love than feeling no love at all.

It is a very hard school, to overcome the ''me'' feels, being denied any possession of the beloved, rejection, gossip, etc...

It is difficult to love almost selflessly..

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But one should always think about the feelings of your impossible skyflower.

"Research suggests that the object of unrequited affection experiences a variety of negative emotions, including anxiety, frustration, and guilt." Maybe fear, or dvesha.

It's sad, the beloved is also in the washing machine... and there is not much choice to find a way out, it should be bhakti.

Only devotion can save Kalidasi from the devotion of Dasidas, only devotion can turn a fragile one into a free strong Durga who can only save a lover from foolish desires.

 Devotion can turn sadness into dasness.

Only devotion can bring a mad self closer to his Damsel

Just as the Beloved will drive you inside, you will drive her inside, to her own world, and it will only make her beautifuler (unfortunately)

Conclusion : normal love is very gross in so many ways in its early stages, unrequited love is a love who can survive without gross sensuality, it cannot be based on that, otherwise it wouldn't survive.

Love is free, so this love cannot take into account the norms of the world, the rules were made for love, not love for rules.

No one can ever change it, not even Amma